Perfumed Plums

My art, my life...In words, in photographs

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chauvinistsushi:

weloveshortvideos:

Latino Hunger Games - Vine by Rudy Mancuso 

y’all tho

I’m crey

love it!

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muzungus:

theuppitynegras:

the-real-goddamazon:

bitteroreo:

cunt-lyfe:

bitteroreo:

cunt-lyfe:

bitteroreo:

ridinginthecarwithroman:

Pretty much.

My life, in a nut shell.

THIS!!!! Sometimes it gets tiring being “on” for everyone

The role of playing comforter for other people, and not having anyone to comfort you.

Not being able to let anyone comfort you…

Because no one ever thinks you need to be comforted, so no one bothers.

Basically my life.

where did y’all find this gif if me

My whole entire life 

Yes.

muzungus:

theuppitynegras:

the-real-goddamazon:

bitteroreo:

cunt-lyfe:

bitteroreo:

cunt-lyfe:

bitteroreo:

ridinginthecarwithroman:

Pretty much.

My life, in a nut shell.

THIS!!!! Sometimes it gets tiring being “on” for everyone

The role of playing comforter for other people, and not having anyone to comfort you.

Not being able to let anyone comfort you…

Because no one ever thinks you need to be comforted, so no one bothers.

Basically my life.

where did y’all find this gif if me

My whole entire life 

Yes.

paintchipsfromthewall:

kaddy-kablamo:

wifigirl2080:

weloveblackgirlsssss:

This is one of the most amazing,talented,strong mind person her name is domineque banks she passed away April 9th,2014 from lupus she was 27.
We need help with her funeral and cremation costs
Please help go to (https://www.giveforward.com/fundraiser/rmd4/in memory of domineque banks)

One of my favorite YouTuber she inspired me to go natural domineque aka.long hairdontcare2011

Damn 😢

YOU NOT SERIOUS AND I WAS WATCHING HER CHANNEL AND I WAS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY SHE HADN’T UPLOADED IN A WHILE

noooooooooooo way.

Rest In Peace :[ 

I am really sad to hear, this , boost for her funeral fund.

Wow! So much sadness this weekend…

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This fella is on me right now….somewhere😌

This fella is on me right now….somewhere😌

Rest in Peace, Karyn Washington (Founder of For Brown Girls and #DarkSkinRedLip)

common-grind:

Karyn Washington

I am sad to only be learning of this tremendous activist for women of color after reading memorials celebrating her advocacy, but I can do my part in spreading awareness of her struggles—the one she fought on the outside and the one she fought within herself. Karyn Washington, who founded the website For Brown Girls and leader of the #DarkSkinRedLip project, reportedly took her own life at the young age of 22. 

Victoria Uwumarogie of Madame Noire describes Washington’s contribution to conversation on women’s portrayal in hip hop:

The young woman launched her website in order to celebrate the beauty of black women who don’t always feel the love out here, and pushed the project #DarkSkinRedLip to encourage black women of all shades to embrace wearing red lipstick after rapper A$AP Rocky said that women of darker complexions shouldn’t rock it. That project, like For Brown Girls, was about empowering. That’s what Washington was all about.

Christelyn Karazin of Beyond Black & White explains that Washington’s suicide should remind us to be willing to accept and pursue help in the face of mental health issues:

Let’s honor Karyn’s memory and continue the work that she started, and take it a step farther. Let’s not just tell black girls and women they are beautiful and worthy. Let’s also tell them that it’s okay to fall back, seek help, and heal.

Rest in Peace, Karyn. 

- Anupam

How awful. I’m truly upset about this. Rest in Peace, Karyn.

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static-nonsense:

[text: So your friend has a chronic illness or disability…]
petticoatruler:

don’t
expect them to be able to go out on a whim
expect them to have lives just like yours
expect them to always be available
demand details of their illness that they haven’t volunteered, ask them nicely and don’t badger
offer help or assistance to make yourself feel like a better person
act as though the disease is catching, repugnant, or disgusting
challenge them to do things they have already told you were impossible
baby them or treat them as though they’re less competent mentally
tell other people about their illness(es)
suggest cures/treatments/holistic practices (since, you know, they probably have already tried it)
Try to relate their problem to your experience - your sprained ankle is nothing like chronic pain, your bout with stomach flu is nothing like IBS, your inability to focus before coffee is nothing like the mental fog that comes with illnesses like fibromyalgia or MS
ever, ever, ever accuse them of faking. ever.
do
understand that some chronic illnesses have good days and bad days, and that there’s no way to predict what’ll happen
be supportive and understand their limitations
ask about dietary or physical restrictions if you are making plans with them
ask about anything that might make things worse for them, and take it into account
tell them that if they need to tell you they can’t do something that you won’t be angry at them for not being able to, and don’t be passive-aggressive about it
remember that they are a person, not an illness
listen to them, ask them questions if you don’t understand something, and remember what they say
I’m sure I’m forgetting something, but this seems like a decent start. Please add your own.

static-nonsense:

[text: So your friend has a chronic illness or disability…]

petticoatruler:

don’t

  • expect them to be able to go out on a whim
  • expect them to have lives just like yours
  • expect them to always be available
  • demand details of their illness that they haven’t volunteered, ask them nicely and don’t badger
  • offer help or assistance to make yourself feel like a better person
  • act as though the disease is catching, repugnant, or disgusting
  • challenge them to do things they have already told you were impossible
  • baby them or treat them as though they’re less competent mentally
  • tell other people about their illness(es)
  • suggest cures/treatments/holistic practices (since, you know, they probably have already tried it)
  • Try to relate their problem to your experience - your sprained ankle is nothing like chronic pain, your bout with stomach flu is nothing like IBS, your inability to focus before coffee is nothing like the mental fog that comes with illnesses like fibromyalgia or MS
  • ever, ever, ever accuse them of faking. ever.

do

  • understand that some chronic illnesses have good days and bad days, and that there’s no way to predict what’ll happen
  • be supportive and understand their limitations
  • ask about dietary or physical restrictions if you are making plans with them
  • ask about anything that might make things worse for them, and take it into account
  • tell them that if they need to tell you they can’t do something that you won’t be angry at them for not being able to, and don’t be passive-aggressive about it
  • remember that they are a person, not an illness
  • listen to them, ask them questions if you don’t understand something, and remember what they say

I’m sure I’m forgetting something, but this seems like a decent start. Please add your own.

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I know my cute days have come and gone. I wish I knew then what I know now….

I know my cute days have come and gone. I wish I knew then what I know now….

The Extra Burdens Faced by Young People with Chronic Illness

chronicallyalive:

Yes to every single one of these.

I especially resonate with number 2.  90% of the people I work with are in their fifties or older.  So when I say my hips are killing me or my chest feels like it’s going to implode, they treat me like a whiny kid and say something along the lines of “Wait ‘til you get to be my age.”  Like I haven’t earned the right to be in pain by virtue of the fact that I’m young.

(via thespoontheory)

Because some pet toys are too cute.

Because some pet toys are too cute.

penishole:

tobeymacguire:

when straight guys ask how lesbian sex works i feel really bad for their girlfriends because if you dont understand how to have sex with a girl in any way other than repeatedly putting your dick in her you are having some really bad sex

I want to reblog this 100 times but I’ll just do it once

(via awkwardblackgirl)

Black girls don’t get told we are beautiful enough. Black girls aren’t always told we can be princesses. Cute, sweet, innocent, pure- these are not words black girls often hear associated with us. Fast, sassy, mouthy, too grown, angry, aggressive- those are the words that get shot at us like darts. Black girls are not girls- we are mini women who are forced to be strong. You must tell black girls they are beautiful, innocent, sweet, magical. You must treat black girls as girls. Then, you can talk about black girl characters whose looks and femininity doesn’t matter. Otherwise, you are just maintaining the status quo- denying black girls our beauty and femininity.

Brittney Jones (via beautiful-ambition)

Yes. We are fragile and genteel and dainty and cute and this is what we are goddamn it

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Reblogging because this is important

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(Source: octobermoe, via strugglingtobeheard)

sourcedumal:

datzhott:

Plus-Sized Woman Rocks Bikini on Hollywood Boulevard to Promote Body Acceptance
Los Angeles is known for many things: great weather, a laidback lifestyle, and Hollywood’s biggest stars. But for many who live in La La Land, the pressure to conform to a certain beauty standard can leave them feeling downright depressed.

This woman is everything
And I just know she’s going to get so much hate because not only is she fat, but she is BLACK and fat and that combo alone will send all the fat hating misogynoir her way.

sourcedumal:

datzhott:

Plus-Sized Woman Rocks Bikini on Hollywood Boulevard to Promote Body Acceptance

Los Angeles is known for many things: great weather, a laidback lifestyle, and Hollywood’s biggest stars. But for many who live in La La Land, the pressure to conform to a certain beauty standard can leave them feeling downright depressed.

This woman is everything

And I just know she’s going to get so much hate because not only is she fat, but she is BLACK and fat and that combo alone will send all the fat hating misogynoir her way.

(via soflyniggaswannastalkme)

oh dear…I wish I could eat normally…